(Harriet would have turned 92 two days ago...Happy birthday, Harriet! I think this piece is worth another read.
--Dylan)
--Dylan)
My friend, the poet Edward Field emailed me on Friday, June 21, 2019 to tell me the horrible news that Harriet Sohmers Zwerling, a memoirist, ex-nude model and sexual adventurer died that morning in a long-term rehab in Brooklyn. She was 91.
I
met Harriet in 2005 when Edward and I organized a photo exhibit at Westbeth of
old bohemians who came up in New York in the 1940’s and 1950’s. Edward
introduced me to Harriet and I went over to her apartment in Stuyvesant Town. Harriet
was an imposing woman, standing six-feet tall with shoulder-length yellow-white
hair and a deep voice.
“Kids
today,” Harriet said in our first interview, “they don’t fuck.”
Harriet
was probably the most fearless person I’ve ever met when it came to discussing
her own sexuality and sex life. Under a picture of a nude painting of herself
done by an art student in the 1960’s, Harriet told me epic stories of her wild
youth and her sexual escapades. After she threw off the chains of her uptight
middle-class youth in Manhattan, Harriet went to the radical Black Mountain
College, then transferred to Berkeley. Working in the campus bookstore, the
21-year-old seduced a 17-year-old Susan Sontag with the line, “Have you read Nightwood?”
referring to the Djuna Barnes novel.
In
1950, Harriet took a ship to Paris with $200 in her pocket. She got involved
with a Swede who gave her gonorrhea. She then hooked up with the entrancing
future playwright Maria Irene Fornes, a Cuban-American, who may have been the
great love of her life.
Harriet
rekindled with Susan in Paris when she left a Fulbright to escape a bad
marriage and motherhood. Their fights were physical. Harriet and Susan hosted
the Beat exiles at their hotel room in Paris, including Allen Ginsberg.
Noticing a big bruise on Susan’s face, Ginsberg said to Harriet, “You hit her
because she is better looking than you.”
Harriet
came back to New York in 1959 and Susan stole Irene from her, breaking her
heart. Distraught, Harriet borrowed $25 and flew to Provincetown, Mass. She
started dating Bill Ward, the editor of the Provincetown
Review. Harriet was an editor there
when the federal government tried to shut the magazine down for publishing the
Hubert Selby Jr.’s story “Tralala,” an excerpt from his novel Last Exit to
Brooklyn. Harriet had to go into hiding for a short period of time.
Bill
Ward’s best friend was Norman Mailer. Harriet and Mailer despised each other,
and she repeatedly attacked Mailer’s height and hypermasculinity. In the summer
of 1961, Mailer coerced his wife Adele Morales Mailer to fight Harriet. The two
women punched each other, pulled each others’ hair and wrestled on the ground while
the men cheered and took bets.
Harriet’s
fight with Adele Mailer was caused by the Mailers’ earlier menage a trois
affair with Irene Fornes, which Irene ended because of her deep affection for
Harriet. This angered the Mailers. The summer fight was directly linked to
Mailer stabbing his Adele that fall. Five
decades later, Harriet could still get angry discussing the big fight.
While
dating Bill Ward, Harriet met her future husband Louie Zwerling in the Cedar
Tavern, the artists’ hangout. Louie tried to pay Harriet for sex, thinking she
was a prostitute. After a turbulent dating period, they married and had their
son Milo in 1963. “Being married to a seaman was great for having affairs,”
Harriet once told me, with her typical candor.
Harriet
continued her prolific and varied sex life. She told me with unsupressed glee
that she would frequent the 55 Bar on Christopher Street, where pot smoking was
encouraged and there were often two people in the bathroom stalls at a time.
This was Harriet’s life as a young mother with a husband on the high seas.
Harriet
later became a public schoolteacher in Greenpoint, Brooklyn, where she worked
for 28 years. She saw the parents of her students in the old Polish
neighborhood as racist.
In
her late seventies, Harriet self-published a collection of essays and
autobiographical pieces called Notes of a
Nude Model, referring to her years modeling at art schools. There were
pieces about her stint as a “Rent a Beatnik” and the time she shot heroin with
the artist Larry Rivers. The book became a surprise hit. Harriet starred in Deirdre
Fishel’s documentary “Still Doing It” about older women and sex. She also stole
the scene when she was in Nancy Kates’ “Regarding Susan Sontag” documentary, where
she discussed her seduction of Sontag. Harriet also starred in Michelle
Memran’s documentary on Irene Fornes called “The Rest I Make Up.”
In
2014, Harriet published Abroad: An
Expatriate’s Diaries, 1950-59, which were excerpts from her Paris diaries.
The diaries are rollicking good fun, with several orgies and the Sontag
fistfight, as well as the roots of her simmering feud with Norman Mailer.
In
the 2006 photo-and-text exhibit that was held at Westbeth, the artists’ housing
on Bethune Street in the West Village, Harriet was the star.
The
exhibit was called “The Last Bohemians” and was to support Edward Field’s
memoir, The Man Who Would Marry Susan Sontag. The exhibit included the sexual
anthropologist Tobias Schneebaum, the writer Elizabeth Pollet, the photographer
and anti-war activist Karl Bissinger and actress and experimental theater
legend Judith Malina.
Harriet
showed up in a maroon bustier, preparing for a night out. The young New
Yorker reporter Lauren Collins grabbed on to her and wouldn’t let her go.
Harriet was featured in the New Yorker’s
Talk of the Town section, referred to by Collins as a grande horizontale. [An old French term for a courtesan, which
would be inappropriate for Harriet.] At the end of the piece, Harriet extolled
the virtues of the Corner Bistro’s burgers. A cartoon of Harriet accompanied
the piece.
By
his forties, Harriet’s son Milo Zwerling had become a successful musician and
the leader of the band Milo Z. Eight years ago, he and his wife Tamara had
their daughter Sierra. Harriet suddenly had a gorgeous granddaughter she could
dote on and love unconditionally.
In
the last five years of her life, Harriet was plagued with falls and did several
stints in physical rehab facilities after a spine injury. She remained a
vibrant sexual being. Several years ago, she published a poem about the number
of people she had slept with over the course of her life. She then recorded a
video of herself reading the poem.
Harriet
also joined a website for cougars, older women looking for younger men. She had
a date with a man fifty years her junior. They made out in her beloved red car,
but she refused his pleas to come back to her apartment for obvious safety
reasons.
In
the last several months, Harriet’s health took a turn for the worse. She had
several falls and was diagnosed with congestive heart failure, winding up in
the rehab in the Bronx, then to Mill Basin, Brooklyn, where she died. Deprived
of her physical independence, Harriet was still fierce to the end. She gave the
poor staff in the Brooklyn rehab hell.
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